Is Saying “No” Selfish or Wise?

Is Saying “No” Selfish or Wise?

Within Christian culture, there can be an assumption that the more you do, the more faithful you are. Or perhaps, truthfully, the more you commit to, the more needed you are. Full calendars mean people have noticed that you, in everything you already accomplish, can...
Don’t Save Life for Someday

Don’t Save Life for Someday

This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it. – Psalm 118:24 Rejoice is one of those biblical words that begins to flatten in our talk because … somewhere along our church path, we’ve reduced this interesting word to a feeling. This...
The Courage We Forgot

The Courage We Forgot

Most of us admire courage. We just hope we won’t need it now because the day has already brought us a sick child, dishes in the sink, and a past-due mortgage.   And let’s face it, isn’t courage for the glamorous? For those in military...
God Never Asked You to Shrink

God Never Asked You to Shrink

The Confidence Crisis No One Talks About I have a girl-power playlist on my phone. Before difficult meetings, hard conversations, or moments when I need a little extra courage, I turn it on and I turn it up. You probably know the kind of songs I’m talking...